My Grandpa Doesn't Follow Me on Instagram Review by Grace Wilson

It’s intimate, hilarious and a beautiful journey about connection, family and finding oneself

Yoz waits at a train station, holding a sad phone screen reading ‘Pa’. This is our opening image for Yoz Mensch’s Adelaide Fringe’s transfer of ‘My Grandpa Doesn’t Follow Me On Instagram’. We follow Yoz’s real account of her trip with her grandpa up to the north of Scotland to see where her grandma’s ashes are scattered.

This work sits somewhere between autobiographical recount, travel guide and monologue. If you go into this show, do not expect your traditional theatre structure. There are no big reveals, no moments of revelation, no gotchas, no act 3 climaxes. Instead we are pulled in for a journey that can only be described as one hell of a ride.

As mentioned previously, what’s unique in particular about this work is the fact that it is real, well, mostly. Yoz’s story is accompanied by real images, videos and sound bites of her actual trip to Scotland. The script leans into this, it’s almost verbatim in this sense. When we step away from the verbatim recount of it all, Mensch’s comedy really shines. They slip between anecdotes with humour and keep the audience hooked. However, this is also where the show falls into lulls. We slip into the glovebox of the car for a bit of 1-1 with the audience which felt clunky at times and did disrupt the flow on several occasions. Jumping back and forth between anecdotes, car rides, glovebox can send your head spinning. There is no release of tension, no climax, no perfect ending and perhaps that’s the beauty of the work. That we’re not an audience but friends of Yoz listening to her recount her memories, the videos and images keeping us grounded. When I said it’s a ride, I really did mean it. These lulls were easy to look past as Yoz drags the audience into a new anecdote without time to waste.

 

Yoz jumps between playing her grandpa, the characters they meet along the way and herself with ease and impeccable comedic timing. She keeps the audience hooked for the full 55 minutes, leading them through a whirlwind of locations, tangents and her own personal journey. The rapport built with the audience and the skill Yoz displays in building a sort of empathy for her grandpa had me waiting for the inevitable ball drop. Mensch knows this too, joking that many of us were waiting for some sort of tragic revelation. There is no neat bow on top ending. It’s real and it’s human in every aspect.

What really sold this show for me was happening in the background of the world – the sound. Whoever the magical sound designer is, whether Yoz or someone else, does some absolutely incredible work here creating an immersive and beautiful soundscape, from station sounds to violin motifs to chilling moments of quiet realness. The soundscape creates a world that sits perfectly under Yoz’s story, only serving to create a more immersive and beautiful atmosphere. Ending on a Chappell Roan sing along is always a good ending in my books too.

Overall, My Grandpa Doesn’t Follow Me On Instagram is a fantastic evening out. It’s intimate, hilarious and a beautiful journey about connection, family and finding oneself. I hope Yoz receives a warm welcome to the Sydney Fringe scene because this is simply what this work deserves.

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Grace Wilson attended My Grandpa Doesn’t Follow Me On Instagram: A Guide to Trans-generational Road-tripping on Wednesday 23 September at New Theatre. My Grandpa Doesn’t Follow Me On Instagram plays until Saturday 26 September